After spending several years trying to make use of this place I give up...perhaps some people find this place useful, but I haven't.
The girl at the bread shop turned out to be just weird. I kept asking her to do things with me from karting or tennis and she kept saying yes, but never going. On the otherhand I finally found a girl that is vegetarian (still eats eggs and dairy, but used to be vegan and I believe wants to be vegan and will become vegan with m help). She rescues all creatures even insects from bad situations like I do. She likes Hard Rock and even plays electric guitar like I do. She likes science fiction including Harry Potter like I do. She's an absolute perfect match. All except that she lives in Rochester NY and I live in Sacramento CA.
I am planning on flying out to meet her, or perhaps flying her out to CA to meet me. It seems very sudden and perhaps rash to some people, but I believe I will ask her to move in with me if our in-person contact results in warm fuzzy feelings. I thought about the times I've simply had roommates and realized that when it's finding roommates I'm willing to just go by first impressions. Obviously, I know that a live-in girlfriend is much more serious than just a roommate, but the same risk is involved regarding their character...any of my roommates could have totally screwed me over, but they didn't. I think I am a very good judge of character even after just a few minutes of conversation. I think she's equal to my own or perhaps even more if that's possible.
This is a huge step for me. I'm 51 and never had a girlfriend before (and no other form of sexual relationship either). So, this is something that will finally make me happy.
I don't understand why girls don't have thoughts on relationship activities. It seems that they spend a lot of time developing expectations and desires, but don't recognize when an opportunity presents itself. For example if she didn't want to drive go-karts or play tennis then she should have said she didn't want to, but if she wanted to see me then she should have suggested another activity. She's not a vegan but once she said she loved tofutti; however, that doesn't make me want to have lunch with her because it's still likely that she would embarass me by asking for an animal to be killed and cut into bits. Why can't girls just ask a guy to see them outside of work? Why do they want to talk during work? Does anybody know?
Interesting....I keep forgetting about this area. I wonder if this is what everyone sees when they look at my profile? I wish there was some help or a description of the features...mostly what I find in LiveJournal is advertising for paid memberships, but even then it doesn't really describe what I would be getting.